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Count the Cost of Effective Parenting - Issue 242
March 16, 2012
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This week has been busy and yet slow all that the same time. Lots going on but we’ve also dealt with sickness and a birthday (which means a day off for everyone who wants to take it!). So for the time we were supposed to be productive, we were – and for the other times – we weren’t!!
It was my birthday during the week and celebrations stretched over till Friday night where we celebrated with a family dinner – a three course meal cooked by Jess. It was delicious and she did well to get it all to the table without fuss. Lots of “Masterchef” favourite quotes floating around the table as we had a relaxed time together enjoying the fruit of her labour!
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Count the Cost
I was looking back over some old files and found this presentation I prepared for a group of mums over ten years ago. As I read through it I could see my journey, decisions I made many years ago and how they have shaped my family, but I could also see that some of these challenges are still present today though with older children they look different. So I thought I would share it with you – as it was written many years ago. It starts with a question – a question I’d like you to ask yourself:
“Am I prepared to count the cost of effective parenting?”
This challenge came as I was reading a passage in Luke 14:28-31
For which one of you when he wants to build a tower does not sit down first and calculate the cost, to see if he has enough to complete it? Otherwise, when he has laid down a foundation and is not able to finish, all who observe it begin to ridicule him saying, “This man began to build and was not able to finish”
It is a bit late for me to sit down and count the cost of building a strong family – my family already exists! But the challenge is still relevant – the principle is still relevant - when we start something we need to make sure we have what it takes to finish it.
Do I have what it takes to finish this task of parenting – there are days it doesn’t feel like I do!
The word that summed up the cost of effective parenting to me is SACRIFICE.
Sacrifice is a word that is not very popular in our me-centered society. Sacrifice means to forego, give up, forfeit, let go, lose, and surrender. These words do not describe the way we are taught to make it in the world. We are taught to look out for number one, strive for your own rights. We are taught that we deserve the best we can have. Am I prepared, for the sake of teaching my children character, to give up some of my rights, to give up some of my self set goals, to let go of some of my self imposed standards. This will cut across my very nature.
Can I count this cost and pay up? These are some of the questions I have to ask myself (Just a comment here, these areas I am sharing are personal examples not principles to live by. What is okay and in balance in one person’s life may need adjusting in another’s – please consider the principle and make your own applications.)
Little by little I will need to make changes in my life, my habits and my attitude as I start to looking at the cost of this project I have started – building children who love Jesus with their whole heart, mind and soul, children with character and morals, children who will stand tall in their society. Children, who I pray, will turn around one day and call me blessed. (Proverbs 31)
It takes time, energy, and focus to be a parent. Am I prepared to pay whatever it takes?
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