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Our Children's Hearts in Crazy Busy Times - Issue 131
December 11, 2009
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This week our girls had their first piano recital. It was very exciting – they played on a baby grand piano and in front of a room full of very proud parents! Their piano teacher had all her students perform so we were in for an afternoon of music. We have been so blessed this year with their new piano teacher – she has challenged them and they have risen to it.
We went shopping this week. Nomi and Daniel had two shoeboxes to fill with gifts for some of the local kids who live without. We went into the shop with a budget and very few ideas of what to buy. It was a great lesson in putting other’s first – it is very hard to shop for someone else when all you can think about is what you would like! I was thrilled with my children’s choices – we need to pray now for the child who receives each box. It has been good to be able to do something like this for people/kids in our own town.
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Our Children’s Heart in Crazy Busy Times
Do you have a lot of things happening in your life at the moment? We do. We have end of year wrap ups as well as Christmas focused events. We have church events and family happenings filling our diaries. The kids are making presents and I have cooking I want to do. Busy, busy, busy…..
When life has these extra events it is easy to shift our focus from our children to the event. This could be anything from a birthday party, to redecorating the house, to having visitors, going on holidays or celebrating Christmas; extra events that come along, adding to our daily life. It is hard to balance intentional training and cope with the extras on our to-do list.
If we don’t though we lose ground with our children very quickly. It doesn’t take long for our children to start to feel a little unsettled with the extra freedoms they have. It doesn’t take long for them to start pushing buttons. It doesn’t take long for them to be hyped up and out of control. It doesn’t take long before we too loose our cool as a parent!
What is going on here? When we get distracted with all the other things on our to-do list we forget to help our children do the right thing. This is what our job is all about – to help our children do the right thing. While our children are developing their own moral where-with-all our job is to help them make right choices. We help them get enough sleep for the day by having a set bed times. We help them play constructively by limiting the amount of toys out at any one time. We help them be responsible by having chore time. These are boundaries we put around our children to help them do the right thing – but if we get busy we forget to put those boundaries around them and they simply can’t cope! Their ratty behaviour is their way of showing us this. They need those boundaries.
So how do we maintain order in our children’s lives and yet do the things we need to do?
Our children need us to pause in our busyness and help them do the right thing. We have to decide what is more important to us – this event or our child’s heart.
There are no new updates this week though you may like to check out the pages on Family Traditions and Christmas in particular.
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Restoring the Heart, Mind and Soul of Christmas - Are you intentional about your Christmas celebrations? A workshop style e-book to help you match your celebrations with your beliefs.
Heart Focus Parenting - A heart focused parent will keep their attention on their child's heart for God, instead of on external behaviours.
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